Very rarely does life go our way. Hashem gives all of us tests we can handle, but one sometimes wonders why He thinks we’re so great to take on difficult tests. Are we really that high and mighty?
In any case, steps have been made in repairing a couple of issues in the Orthodox world: gays and Orthodox drop-outs.
Drop-outs repairing the rifts
The Baal Teshuvah movement  has been around since the 1960’s and has been revolutionary in that it has allowed many formerly-unaffiliated people to bolster the observant community.
However, with every person becoming religious there is someone throwing off the yoke of Observant Judaism. What’s worse is that this is being made hush-hush.
The “good” news today is that, according to Miriam Shaviv, many with a Yeshiva education that “check out of” the fold don’t leave completely. Many are left with an indelible impression from their days in Yeshiva and see the secular system as valueless. As a result, they will continue to maintain some level of tradition.
While it’s not “perfect,” it still addresses a pressing need among the less observant community. If someone anti-religious won’t listen to a value system from a Rabbi with peyos, a bekeshe/shtreimel/gartel, he at least might listen to someone who “looks” like one of their own.
The Orthodox Rabbi Helping Gay Men Marry Lesbians
A while back a video documentary called “Trembling Before G-d” came out (no pun intended). This video documented 6 Shomer Shabbos Jews who unfortunately “swung the other way,” generally as a result of being born into their situation.
While it’s difficult for someone with a Yeshiva background to deal with someone like that in a Yeshiva, or even as a neighbor or family member, we should note that the Zohar HaKadosh mentions that someone born gay was in a previous life straight, but slept with someone of the same gender out of free will (think Greeks and Roman gladiators). As a result, as a Tikkun for such a misdeed, Hashem reincarnated that soul into someone who has the natural inclination to sleep with someone of the same gender, and the real test for that person is to not sleep with someone of the same gender. Now, there are some things that person can and can’t do, but that’s a different topic. Until recently, the best someone could expect was to either remain celibate or be unhappily married.
One Orthodox Rabbi is trying the make the best of this situation. Rabbi Areleh Harel from the West Bank devised a plan to help an Orthodox Jewish gay man fulfill his dream of becoming a husband and father while keeping him in good standing with Jewish law and his community of believers. The solution: marry him to a lesbian .
Through a friend, Harel found an Orthodox lesbian who also wanted a traditional family. Within a year, the couple married. They now have two children. No one suspects they are gay. Since that first arrangement, Harel has matched 13 gay-lesbian couples.
What a Kiddush Hashem!